THE YOU CODE
Writer: Judi James
Kindle: here
Genre: Self-help
How I read it: Kindle
Synopsis: Did you know that the way you eat your food will be sending subliminal messages out about your sexual habits? Or that the way you decorate your desk, could be helping your boss decide about that promotion or pay rise? We’re all aware of the subtle messages of design and marketing but what about the signals you send out about yourself and your personality?The You Code is the book that answers all these questions, uncovering the hidden meaning behind the simplest of choices. Judi James, with co-writer and journalist James Moore, pulls no punches in her addictive and entertaining book which gets to the nub of who you really are, telling you more about yourself than you ever wanted to know, as well as providing an intriguing insight into the people around you. From your favourite TV programme to the type of coffee you drink, even down to the filling in your sandwich, The You Code is a must for anyone who wants to find out more about themselves and, more importantly, what everyone else thinks of them.My Thoughts: I was disappointed in this book. I wanted to like it, I really did. It mentioned my favourite past times: reading, television, and drinking coffee.
Why I was disappointed: options were missing.
For instance, I'm a coffee drinker but I drink regular coffee with a drop of milk. That wasn't an option. And under the 'What your mantelpiece says about you' the option for bare and well-dusted wasn't an option.
What about a normal, well-made bed under the 'What your bed says about you'.
And, the information under each option is often rude.
For instance, under the option of drinking Earl Grey tea (my favorite): "...drinks do have an air of superiority but they're also those who prefer their gratification delayed, rather than instant because the 'delicate' flavour of this tea can take several samplings before it can be enjoyed." What!?
Or, under Lapsang Souchong: "...how precious are you? How Special? Not very is the likely answer but you clearly like to think so." First of all, what is Lapsang Souchong? And how can you possible assess that from one tea?
For a wonderful book on reading people, try Reading People by Wendy Patrick Mazzarella and Jo-Ellan Dimitrius.
Clarissa - Thanks for this honest review. I've often wondered about the validity of those "signals," although I do understand the premise. I think I'll check out your other suggestion, though....
ReplyDeleteIf I ever read this, it'll be with tongue firmly in cheek!
ReplyDeleteI love Earl Grey - with a little milk and honey! Thanks for the review!! Take care
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Clarissa, I think this book didn't want to give you direct options and answers but it wanted to make you think in that way, to try to analyze people in that way to.
ReplyDeleteI think I would probably enjoy this book, since I'm extremely good in analyzing people through their image, design, habits ... You can even analyze and say a lot about a person just through analyzing his or hers blog, the look and the design :)
I'm very good at reading people as well. However, I found it to be superficial. Dez, if you do read the book, I would love to hear what you thought of it.
ReplyDeleteThe problem was it didn't give enough detail and the details seemed to come out of nowhere.
Thanks for posting an honest review.
ReplyDeleteAs I read the blurb, I was thinking "I'm getting this book." But I'm glad you gave examples. I agree. Very disappointing.
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Wow, girl! This was really honest and I appreciate that. Don't see this one hitting the TBR pile.
ReplyDeleteOn a lighter note -- I'm the boss so I can decorate my desk to suit me and give me a raise when I can afford it.
LOL
It doesn't sound too exciting!
ReplyDeleteI may try the second book. Thanks!
ah, yes, if the writes was superficial in her approach to those generally interesting things, than it is a bad thing. Psychology can be fun, but it shouldn't be dealt with by amateurs and superficial people.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on that one. Especially if the book is also offensive in some points as you mentioned.
Thanks for the redirect to Reading People. I do want to check that one out.
ReplyDeleteI haven't read the book but your analysis tells me that its full of assumptions, which is a very bad thing. Because there must be some kind of evidence that one can point towards if you gonna make theory fact. Even then it is never a done deal. Definitely looking out for Reading People. Thanks Clarissa.
ReplyDeleteI have never heard of this book but the title alone has me interested. I hate to know that you were disappointed because it seems like it would be a lot of fun to read.
ReplyDeleteI don't like that options are missing. We are all so different that I guess there would be far too many to predict however the one's you shared seem like they'd be regular choices.
I think I want to give this a try to see what I think ;)
Hey! I don't want people to know that I'm deprived from how I eat my food. LOL.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear of your disappointment. The book sounds like an almost fun thing to read...
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Thanks, I think I'll give this a miss - don't fancy the rudeness - my fave tea is lapsang souchong - it tastes like bonfires. I like the smokey taste and smell and cause I can't have a fire - I'll have the tea instead :)
ReplyDeleteI have a normal, dull bed. I don't drink coffee. The second book sounds more to my liking.
ReplyDeleteBTW, I mention you in my current post because I thought of you when I did what I did. (Is that intriguing enough to get you over there?!)
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Interesting. I am quite intrigued by unorthodox methods of assessing personality. Thanks for putting me off this one! I don't think you need to condescend to readers in order to communicate something worthwhile.
ReplyDeleteaw, when I read the synopsis I was like you -- I wanted to like it. It sounded like it would be helpful to have for writings wanting to add details to their characters. Alas, it sounds like it's a bit light and silly.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the review :)
Personally, I like a well made bed and a dollop of milk in my coffee and tea. From the looks of things it is trying to be funny...which can be entertaining but get old quickly.
ReplyDeleteSounds like this would make a better database that's searchable than a book. Thanks for the suggestions though :)
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Sounds like a great premise and I love the cover. How disappointing that it's a let-down.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the review, I don't think I'll bother reading it now, I think I'd just get irritated :-)
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